The last time I really cried was at his funeral. Did you manage to do it? months , I haven't moved on yet. I'm using that as one of my main healing mechanisms. Just a void—an empty, numb, emotionless void. If people ask you how you are doing, be honest so they know to be gentle with you. Your work in therapy can also help you to develop healthier coping mechanisms to handle the more painful emotions you experience. She said I am having a posttraumatic depression and it will get better. Sign Up and Get Listed. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. I get that reducing men's responses to "fight or flight" and women's to "tend and befriend" leaves little room for any kind of gender fluidity. Most people in my situation would be bawling their eyes out, but I feel nothing. this is my first time on here.
That's never been hard for me to do. We know that the need to cry is part of venting our emotions, as well as a way to deal with stress and tension. Sometimes there can be some sort of physical problem. I hope everything works out for you, man. You know that if you spent 3 years with someone that it would signify closure.
They would never ever think that I am going through hell. Some people are always close to tears and cry whenever there is a sad scene in a movie or they hear that their neighbor’s old rabbit had died. I even tried to force myself to cry the other day because I thought it might help to finally do it. If I’m correct about that, I think it is possible the numbness you describe initially developed as a coping mechanism—a way to help you manage all the pain associated with the tumult in your family and work. I'm not claiming I haven't been sad, because I most certainly have. Hey all, hoping someone can shed some light on something for me.
The last time I really cried was at his funeral. Did you manage to do it? months , I haven't moved on yet. I'm using that as one of my main healing mechanisms. Just a void—an empty, numb, emotionless void. If people ask you how you are doing, be honest so they know to be gentle with you. Your work in therapy can also help you to develop healthier coping mechanisms to handle the more painful emotions you experience. She said I am having a posttraumatic depression and it will get better. Sign Up and Get Listed. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. I get that reducing men's responses to "fight or flight" and women's to "tend and befriend" leaves little room for any kind of gender fluidity. Most people in my situation would be bawling their eyes out, but I feel nothing. this is my first time on here.
That's never been hard for me to do. We know that the need to cry is part of venting our emotions, as well as a way to deal with stress and tension. Sometimes there can be some sort of physical problem. I hope everything works out for you, man. You know that if you spent 3 years with someone that it would signify closure.
They would never ever think that I am going through hell. Some people are always close to tears and cry whenever there is a sad scene in a movie or they hear that their neighbor’s old rabbit had died. I even tried to force myself to cry the other day because I thought it might help to finally do it. If I’m correct about that, I think it is possible the numbness you describe initially developed as a coping mechanism—a way to help you manage all the pain associated with the tumult in your family and work. I'm not claiming I haven't been sad, because I most certainly have. Hey all, hoping someone can shed some light on something for me.
The last time I really cried was at his funeral. Did you manage to do it? months , I haven't moved on yet. I'm using that as one of my main healing mechanisms. Just a void—an empty, numb, emotionless void. If people ask you how you are doing, be honest so they know to be gentle with you. Your work in therapy can also help you to develop healthier coping mechanisms to handle the more painful emotions you experience. She said I am having a posttraumatic depression and it will get better. Sign Up and Get Listed. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. I get that reducing men's responses to "fight or flight" and women's to "tend and befriend" leaves little room for any kind of gender fluidity. Most people in my situation would be bawling their eyes out, but I feel nothing. this is my first time on here.
That's never been hard for me to do. We know that the need to cry is part of venting our emotions, as well as a way to deal with stress and tension. Sometimes there can be some sort of physical problem. I hope everything works out for you, man. You know that if you spent 3 years with someone that it would signify closure.
They would never ever think that I am going through hell. Some people are always close to tears and cry whenever there is a sad scene in a movie or they hear that their neighbor’s old rabbit had died. I even tried to force myself to cry the other day because I thought it might help to finally do it. If I’m correct about that, I think it is possible the numbness you describe initially developed as a coping mechanism—a way to help you manage all the pain associated with the tumult in your family and work. I'm not claiming I haven't been sad, because I most certainly have. Hey all, hoping someone can shed some light on something for me.
The last time I really cried was at his funeral. Did you manage to do it? months , I haven't moved on yet. I'm using that as one of my main healing mechanisms. Just a void—an empty, numb, emotionless void. If people ask you how you are doing, be honest so they know to be gentle with you. Your work in therapy can also help you to develop healthier coping mechanisms to handle the more painful emotions you experience. She said I am having a posttraumatic depression and it will get better. Sign Up and Get Listed. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. I get that reducing men's responses to "fight or flight" and women's to "tend and befriend" leaves little room for any kind of gender fluidity. Most people in my situation would be bawling their eyes out, but I feel nothing. this is my first time on here.
That's never been hard for me to do. We know that the need to cry is part of venting our emotions, as well as a way to deal with stress and tension. Sometimes there can be some sort of physical problem. I hope everything works out for you, man. You know that if you spent 3 years with someone that it would signify closure.
They would never ever think that I am going through hell. Some people are always close to tears and cry whenever there is a sad scene in a movie or they hear that their neighbor’s old rabbit had died. I even tried to force myself to cry the other day because I thought it might help to finally do it. If I’m correct about that, I think it is possible the numbness you describe initially developed as a coping mechanism—a way to help you manage all the pain associated with the tumult in your family and work. I'm not claiming I haven't been sad, because I most certainly have. Hey all, hoping someone can shed some light on something for me.
The last time I really cried was at his funeral. Did you manage to do it? months , I haven't moved on yet. I'm using that as one of my main healing mechanisms. Just a void—an empty, numb, emotionless void. If people ask you how you are doing, be honest so they know to be gentle with you. Your work in therapy can also help you to develop healthier coping mechanisms to handle the more painful emotions you experience. She said I am having a posttraumatic depression and it will get better. Sign Up and Get Listed. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. I get that reducing men's responses to "fight or flight" and women's to "tend and befriend" leaves little room for any kind of gender fluidity. Most people in my situation would be bawling their eyes out, but I feel nothing. this is my first time on here.
That's never been hard for me to do. We know that the need to cry is part of venting our emotions, as well as a way to deal with stress and tension. Sometimes there can be some sort of physical problem. I hope everything works out for you, man. You know that if you spent 3 years with someone that it would signify closure.
They would never ever think that I am going through hell. Some people are always close to tears and cry whenever there is a sad scene in a movie or they hear that their neighbor’s old rabbit had died. I even tried to force myself to cry the other day because I thought it might help to finally do it. If I’m correct about that, I think it is possible the numbness you describe initially developed as a coping mechanism—a way to help you manage all the pain associated with the tumult in your family and work. I'm not claiming I haven't been sad, because I most certainly have. Hey all, hoping someone can shed some light on something for me.
I am sitting with his best friend having a coffee and we are exchanging memories. Eating better, and hitting the gym 5-6 days a week, and going to work. That there are times when I am wishing I was lying in the casket instead of him—or at least with him. While my life is my own, I want him to experience being a grandfather. I'm starting to wonder if I'm ever going to meet someone just to start a friendship with! Home Terms of Service Privacy Policy Sitemap Subscribe to The GoodTherapy Blog. Even after quitting the pills, I could not cry anymore. It was sad, but not at all shocking. Some people cry while reading a sad book or watching videos of baby animals. Letters, sometimes nonsensical, just to get it out of my head, never to be sent. You're doing well! Keep on the path you're going. I don’t take it as an issue of worry but sometimes it bothers me. 17 Things I Wish I’d Known When I Was 17 | Thought Catalog, You can’t change your past, but you can cleanse your memories…, In The Digital Age, There’s No Such Thing As A Clean Break, Voting In 2020 Is Like Wearing a Mask—Just Do It, Jude Duncan On Why Psoriasis Is So Much More Than A Cosmetic Issue, What Each Zodiac Sign Should Put Effort Into In October 2020, Perhaps Grief Is Just The Other Side Of Love, “What’s Your Favorite Part About Being Gay?”: I Asked 30 Lesbians And Here’s What They Had To Say, Despite What Anyone Tells You, You Are Allowed To Be Sad Sometimes. If it doesn't happen, don't go looking for it. I didn't lose my zest for life...so much as I was merely existing in my own world. The safety of a strong therapeutic relationship can allow you to explore your world, past and present, and access your full range of emotions. She doesn’t believe it will give her closure, either. "[They aren't] the usual environment. I was hoping that crying will help me feel physically better but nothing would come out. A Cry For Help Advice And Support Please!!!!!!! I could not breathe. It seems to be a place for women to say what they want, but unless you fit every last detail of their lofty requirements, they pass you over. My kids don’t want anything to do with me. I felt love at all times. The main reason I was questioning it is because while I've had a number of relationships since my first long term relationship (I consider that to be over a year) in my early 20s, this last one was by far my most serious in terms of where it was going. Maybe I am mentally ill and that is the reason. Not sure if this is even a problem. I spoke to a neuroscientist at the Max Planck Institute in Germany, Oisin Butler. He explained that, between the sexes, there are no absolute terms. You shouldn’t have to cry to prove to yourself how much you are grieving OR to others. I had to take some medications that would calm me down and stop the crying. I mentioned in my first post that I broke down in front of my dad. Or maybe it’s time to accept that there is pain in this world that is so unbearable that your body knows that not even crying is going to fix it. I am going through exactly the same thing as you are now.
The last time I really cried was at his funeral. Did you manage to do it? months , I haven't moved on yet. I'm using that as one of my main healing mechanisms. Just a void—an empty, numb, emotionless void. If people ask you how you are doing, be honest so they know to be gentle with you. Your work in therapy can also help you to develop healthier coping mechanisms to handle the more painful emotions you experience. She said I am having a posttraumatic depression and it will get better. Sign Up and Get Listed. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. I get that reducing men's responses to "fight or flight" and women's to "tend and befriend" leaves little room for any kind of gender fluidity. Most people in my situation would be bawling their eyes out, but I feel nothing. this is my first time on here.
That's never been hard for me to do. We know that the need to cry is part of venting our emotions, as well as a way to deal with stress and tension. Sometimes there can be some sort of physical problem. I hope everything works out for you, man. You know that if you spent 3 years with someone that it would signify closure.
They would never ever think that I am going through hell. Some people are always close to tears and cry whenever there is a sad scene in a movie or they hear that their neighbor’s old rabbit had died. I even tried to force myself to cry the other day because I thought it might help to finally do it. If I’m correct about that, I think it is possible the numbness you describe initially developed as a coping mechanism—a way to help you manage all the pain associated with the tumult in your family and work. I'm not claiming I haven't been sad, because I most certainly have. Hey all, hoping someone can shed some light on something for me.
